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This article is a wonderful introduction for those who are completely new to the scene. This is not meant to be presented as the one true way to communicate with a professional Dominatrix. No two providers are the same and neither are our contact protocols or expectations for engagement. However, this will prepare you for what to look for when selecting a provider and how to communicate in a manner which will ensure your inquiry gets a response and not deleted or ignored. The following is copyrighted material shared with permission by Simone Justice :.

Whether you are a nervous novice contemplating your first experience or a weekly visitor at the local house of domination, read this article to learn how to find the dominatrix of your dreams and how not to become her nightmare. During my years as a professional dominatrix, numerous conversations with my peers revealed common preferences in regards to conduct and protocol for booking appointments.

Below, I outline crucial advice for the client seeking a session:. She can also use the information you provide to suggest other things you may find interesting. This is your chance to fulfill your fantasies. Go back over your list of interests. Realistically evaluate whether you want Light, Medium, or Heavy play in each area of interest. Remember that the types of play may be combined in session, which may increase the sensation. Most dominatrices will have the basics, such as a paddle, a flogger, a crop, etc. Figure out and list your equipment needs, such as: suspension rig, cross-dressing wardrobe, hood, etc.

Think about the most important qualities you would like to find in a dominatrix. Consider such elements as intelligence, personality, physical appearance, and style of play. Some dominatrices have a friendly, compassionate, flexible play style, while others have a distant, haughty, imperial play style.

Try going over your history to determine the fundamental characteristics of a successful encounter. Decide what sort of relationship you want. Do you like the short- term anonymity that a house, which employs several dominatrices, can provide, or do you prefer a long-term personal interaction with an independent Dominatrix? Think about which is right for you, an independent dominatrix who works for herself or one on staff at a house of domination.

There are pros and cons for each. Women who work independently may have a private studio or rent from another dominatrix , generally are experienced, may even be lifestyle, and offer a more personal and long-term connection. However independents are more expensive, sometimes very selective about their submissives, may not see novices, and are less likely to see you at the last minute.

Houses of domination are less expensive, more convenient, and offer easy opportunity for double and group sessions. However, dominatrices at a house are sometimes less experienced, may not be genuinely into BDSM, and often will not stay around for long. These distinctions are less reliable than when this article was first written as now it is so easy for anyone to post on the internet and call themselves a dominatrix…that independent status no longer means as much — see below for hints on how to discern the difference between a beginner and expert dominatrix.

Keeping what you have determined to be important for your session in mind, look at websites for dominatrices in your area. Generally, dominatrices with their own websites are more serious than ones who only advertise on websites such as Eros or just have a Twitter or Instagram . A good place to start are well-established websites where the serious professional dominatrices get listed, such as dickievirgin and Pandemos.

ly, I warned against the dominatrix who does not show her face in photos…but with the advent of the internet plus the ease and permanence of sharing photos today…this caveat no longer applies. Do not allow yourself to be swayed away from your specific needs just because a dominatrix looks good in photos or she is wearing your favorite fetish wear; you will be disappointed if you are mismatched in other crucial areas. Much about finding a dominatrix has changed since this article was first published. There are now so many dominatrices in every part of the world that it has become difficult to find the great ones…see below for some pointers.

It has become necessary for clients to conduct research in order to find a safe, experienced dominatrix. Elaborate fetish wear in leather and latex, quality toys and BDSM furniture are expensive though getting much cheaper these days , which means a dominatrix needs some success to acquire them. Look for photos and videos that prove she has made an investment in domination. Does she have all the components of a fetish wardrobe? Entire outfits including accessories like gloves, hats, and expensive items such as thigh-high leather boots show a she is willing and able to invest in her sessions.

One pic of a woman in cheap lingerie on a bed with a PVC paddle in her hand is not a good ! Has she trained with someone experienced? Studying under an experienced dominatrix is the best way to become skilled in the art of domination. When starting out, I took classes and worked for the legendary Sabrina Belladonna may she Rest In Power , and I learned by working alongside some of the best. Later, I started giving back by mentoring dominants. Learning from an established ProDomme used to be standard practice but now has unfortunately become rare. Those who have sought out this kind of training show their commitment to the craft…now more than ever.

Read for clues of expertise in her writing. Does she rely on stereotypical attitude and a predictable stance of arrogance in an attempt to sound dominating? Or does she demonstrate a true understanding of BDSM play and the realities of orchestrating a scene?

Does she travel to fetish events and conferences? Or better yet, does she perform or speak at them? What level of play does she list? If she only specializes in light interests such as foot fetish or if she concentrates on interests that do not require much skill, do not expect her to have the experience or equipment necessary for a sophisticated intense encounter.

Does she have a good reputation? It has become CRITICAL that you consider these elements when choosing a dominatrix, as there are many great looking women out there whom you will find disappointing in session. Furthermore, some have no ethics such as those who expose their celebrity clients. Do not try to save money by going to someone based on cost alone.

Not just in person. You can be mentally and emotionally harmed in any interaction. If funds are a concern, I advise visiting a well-known house of domination as opposed to an inexpensive independent. Independent dominatrices with fully equipped spaces and extensive wardrobes have high overhead, and will demand a higher tribute, but they generally have more technical and safety expertise.

And most of them know nothing about how to Dominate, their skills extend to merely yelling stock insults and trying to grab as much cash as they can before you realize they have no idea how to truly play. Write a polite, submissive, concise outlining your specific interests including your kink thresholds i.

You must include whatever information she has requested or you might not receive an answer. What to do if she requires references and you are a total novice:. Go to a reputable house of domination in her area, for your first sessions. She can contact someone she knows there. And keep looking some very famous dominatrices take walk-ins. Be sure to pay an online tribute or send a gift card along with your , if requested extra points, if not requested.

Dominatrices often screen applicants by ignoring the ones that fail to demonstrate their sincerity. This is necessary because there are so many applicants and many are insincere or nowadays they are even trying to scam ProDommes ha ha I know their little tricks. Unless requested, you do not have to send a photo of yourself. Be patient. She is probably not going to have time to get back to you immediately. Just follow my directions whether making an appointment:. She might block you or refuse to see you. Introduce yourself before you start asking questions. Every day I had to interrupt inadvertently rude excited callers to find out to whom I was speaking because they launched right away into their scene…most annoying!

If you are making up a name choose something unusual instead of Bob, Steve, Mark, or John — there are already too many of those. Choose something unusual and easy for both of you to remember. If a receptionist answers, let her do her job. She has been educated to answer your questions hired to book appointments. When contacting a dominatrix, ask if she is seeing new clients, tell her what you seek, ask questions about her facility, experience level, her specialties or interests, hours, tribute, etc. Indicate how important those interests are to you and see if she still encourages you to visit her.

However, do pay attention if she makes a point of letting you know she never accommodates those interests. Yes, I know that many dominatrices these days have no qualms about admitting to illegal acts and even post photos and videos.

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