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Never before has sexting the act of having a dirty conversation via text been so relevant. And those on dating apps are having forgo planning a date for digital-based alternatives. Which means that if you're feeling sexual frustration at the moment, you're not alone. But there is a way to stay intimate with your partner and gain a sense of continued connection: sexting. We've come up with five ways you can keep the spark alive via your phone, whether you're a beginner or just are in need of a few extra pointers. Sexting is similar to actual sex in the sense that you need to be in the mood.
There's no point trying to start an x-rated conversation at midday if you know your partner has a conference call in an hour, or they're sitting down for dinner with their family. Sending a simple 'Are you busy? The thing about sexting is that the longer it goes on for, the more of an impact it is going to have on the arousal of the two people involved. Engage in some 'digital foreplay' if you will, perhaps beginning by sending a suggestive selfie or letting them know you've been thinking about them.
Gradually build as you go, taking time to linger on each step; you don't even need to start openly talking about sex until a few messages in. If you're initiating the sexting conversation then remember that you are in control and, in effect, playing a role. Your words, photos, and voice messages can all be used to create a fantasy for your partner and arouse them to the point of satisfaction, however you need to keep the conversation moving and lead the other person.
If you're texting a partner than it's likely you have lots of steamy sessions in the bank that you can refer to, so use these. Don't give yourself extra work to do, particularly if you find sexting doesn't come naturally, by adding in all sorts of new moves. Your partner wants to feel that they are texting the person they know and love, and that your past experiences together turn you on.
If you're sexting someone you don't know well, or are yet to have sex with, then make sure you don't go too far with your imaginings. It's all-too-easy to get carried away over text, but you don't want to give the other person a false impression of what they might expect if and when you do get together down the line.
Not only does this put unnecessary pressure on you, it can also leave you feel overly-vulnerable or uncomfortable about their expectations, when the time does come around. Plus, many of us might struggle to open up about our sexual fantasies but feeling them out in a 'make-believe' setting can help you determine what you want and how the other person might feel about them.
Asking sexy questions can be an easy way for you to know what your partner is thinking. The questions can also assist you in painting a vivid image of their fantasies within their imagination. Plus, asking a question is also a great way to keep things going if you feel you are struggling to find things to say or feel uncomfortable about revealing too much. What part of me do you want to see? Are you turned on right now? How do you want to play with me?
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